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19
Apr
2025

Miracle Baby

categories: Parenting, Pregnancy Chronicles, Uncategorized

When I turned 40 two years ago, one of the first things that came to mind is perimenopause. I remember my mom kept reminding me and my sister to watch out for symptoms as soon as we turn 40.

So I did, and it came at a time when we were also preparing for Mommy’s treatment as her diagnosis came a day after my birthday. I immediately thought of our food intake, our lifestyle, arrangements at home and mom’s after-surgery care and chemo treatment plan.

The following year, we dedicated to changing our diet, leaning to more whole foods and vegetables. As the main caregiver, I had to also adjust my work schedules, homeschool routine of my daughter, and household set up as we take care of mom. I also began losing weight, not that I was meaning to, but my friends got to notice it first. I then find myself including swimming twice a week as part of my physical and mental exercise.

That lasted for the first half of last year. The latter half began with the great news–we got pregnant. At 40 turning 41. I was confused, amused, afraid, overjoyed, and very, very grateful for this blessing–a prayer item that could have lasted forever. Never expected for it to come true anymore because of our ages.

It took a while for me to tell friends and family about the pregnancy. Maybe I was just being very careful, because I am aware of the risks of geriatric pregnancy. And only on my third trimester, particularly the ninth month, did I really feel I was pregnant, with all the symptoms and complications presenting themselves one by one.

That I was able to share this journey with our teenage daughter also was very special. She was at first in denial and in total shock, but when we have all finally embraced this child, it was a truly heartwarming feeling for our family.

Our baby is a testament to God’s goodness. During pregnancy, I had a lot of monitoring being done. Blood glucose, blood pressure, blood tests, name it. I had to restrict myself to no sugar, no salt, no fat diet. Had to take medicines and insulin. The routine is tiring, not to mention expensive, but when I think of the baby, I get back on track.

Thankfully, I was able to work all throughout the pregnancy. Together with my daughter, sister, and niece, we had a quick vacay to Hong Kong. I got to travel for work in various locations, and even had to go to weekly rehearsals for a concert. I sang, taught, gave workshops until before labor day. Never a day that I felt morning sickness or any “lihi.” I really cannot do anything with my cravings though since I am under a strict diet.

My husband was planning a party to welcome the baby. I kept on pushing back the day of the Baby Shower (Sprinkle, as per my sister), because I or some of my family and friends were busy, and also, I was kind of unsure whether I really wanted it, cos I was so scared of my conditions. But I am very thankful to my husband for doing all of the preparations for it, along with my family and friends, and the event turned out truly heartwarming and fun, not to mention, overflowing with food, gifts, and love.

Equally grateful are we because of hand-me-downs! I posted, unashamedly, on my Facebook, to ask who can gift us with hand-me-downs cos we would be happy recipients. First to respond was my cousin, whose daughter gave birth a few months earlier, so most of the newborn clothes we got from them. A number of friends also gifted us with clothes, blankets, even a crib and booster seat! Saved us a lot of money to buy new ones. And just right for our “declutter” theme at home.

Then came my 38th week pre-natal check up. I already knew the doctor wanted me to deliver the baby at this week, so she immediately ordered another ultrasound. And because my amniotic fluid went on overdrive, all the more she wanted the baby out so as to avoid complications. I got admitted that evening, was given inducing gels, and after 12 hours, baby came out normal, without epidural, and me screaming the pain off the entire time.

Marcella is beautiful. And strong. We both were at that time, and I was so overjoyed with this achievement, same feeling with birthing our firstborn. My husband was allowed to enter the delivery room for photos and to see his new princess.

Ate Aria was equally excited to see her Ading (younger sibling). We made sure to catch on video her reaction in seeing the little baby she has loved and witnessed growing inside my womb.

What a miracle, what a gift, what a lesson this pregnancy and birth has taught me. This is just the beginning, and we are excited for what life has in store now that we are a TEAM of four.

19
Mar
2025

Dearest Schatzi,

categories: Church Life, Parenting, Pregnancy Chronicles

Ite ad Ioseph (Go to Joseph).

With our current situation, this is the best thing we could do, to pray to St. Joseph as the head of the Holy Family and for us as soon to be parents of a newborn given our advanced ages.

We’re counting a few more days and we still cannot believe all of these are happening. But just the same, I am looking forward to tread this newborn phase again with you and our beautiful Ate Aria. March is so lucky to have the best father–faithful, caring, loving, smart, and funny.

Isn’t it great to be a girl dad? I think it really suits you. Of course, we wonder what if our second born is a boy, but whatever the gender is, I know you will be the best dad to our children.

My prayer for you is to always have good health, mind our food intake, exercise, and continue to be funny. I also pray for strength for us both to take good care of the household and the children, and to continue doing good in our work, at church and our choir, your martial arts practice, and to have more time for our family and friends. Lastly, I pray that the house will be filled with even more music, now that we will become a quartet.

We love you, Daddy! Let’s continue to go, grow, and glow in this parent-of-two thing.

Love,

Mommy Schatzi <3

11
Mar
2025

Mom of two

categories: Parenting, Pregnancy Chronicles

Less than 40 days until my husband and I become parents of two. And Aria becomes our firstborn and Ate (eldest female sibling) of the family.

The idea was farfetched, until the middle of last year. While I was doing caregiver duties for my mom, and preparing for perimenopause, God granted us another child at the most unexpected timing. And here we are, barely a month from now I shall be giving birth, 15 years after our firstborn.

Who gets to be a new mom at 27 then again at almost 42?

A lot have asked, was this planned? Why did it take so long? Honestly, I cannot answer that. Who can, anyway? All I know was I was listing this as a prayer item during our family’s annual planning at the beginning of each year. I might have not listed this in 2024 though, cos I was preparing for perimenopause and focusing on the start of mom’s chemotherapy. As Scripture says, the Lord know what’s best for us, and that He will not give anything that we cannot handle. I better keep on clinging to that verse.

I had a lot of doubts, fears, and anxieties the moment I found out I was pregnant. Of course, I am in my 40s already, and hearing stories of other moms bearing children at this age, I knew we were at risk, both baby and I. This was the reason why I was mum about being a mom during the first trimester. I only told a few people, and I was so hesitant to talk about the pregnancy, because of all the monitoring, check ups, and medicines I had to take. I prayed, did my part to take care of my food intake and overall health, before I felt it was ready to tell the world about this miracle. It took me five months before I got to announce.

But this baby is so much loved and taken care of, and I really feel it cos she made me a stronger mother. This one, even in utero, is teaching us three important things:

1. To mind our food intake. Not only me, but my husband and daughter joined in this change. We shifted to whole foods, lessened intake, eradicated everything artificial in our pantry, stopped drinking store bought drinks, no junk and fast foods. It did us wonders–weight loss, better looking skin and less to no acne, more energy throughout the day.

2. To declutter. We have decluttered boxes and boxes of clothes, garbage, and excess stuff. A lot has been donated to two institutions whom we think can benefit from these items better. Still a lot of cleaning up to do, and it’s only a month to go so we have to move it, move it!

3. To not waste time. My husband realised that time is too precious, especially for him raising another child in his age. It’s as if this is our firstborn again, and I agree very much. So much that I was able to convince him to attend a class for newborn parents for us to get refreshed on taking care a newborn.

So here we are, counting the days til I give birth yet again. But still have loads of work to finish at home, for church, and teaching duties. Sadly, for the first time, I will be missing Holy Week at church, cos this week is my due date. I know I’d miss the outside world again when I give birth, so I am trying to see as much shows and concerts, meet as much friends and family, and finish as much work I could.

I can’t wait to be a mom of two. Lifting up our two children to the care of the Lord, Señor Sto. Niño, St. Raymond Nonato, and Our Lady of La Leche.

St. Ariadne of Phrygia and St. Marcella of Rome, pray for us! Pray for our beautiful treasures, our children.

08
Mar
2023

Women who helped me be the woman I wish to be

categories: Parenting, Working Mama

Happy Women’s Day! Or Month! Or Year! No matter how you celebrate today, know that you, as a woman, is entitled to celebrate yourself anytime of the year, or everyday even!

Back when I was young, I remember women were associated with fickle-mindedness, probably because of mood swings and whathaveyous, that’s why typhoons are named after women (not anymore the case nowadays, thankfully!). But aren’t women also decisive, organized, and focused? I really didn’t get that comparison!

Anyways, that’s not what we’re going to debate over this blogpost, but I just want to share that as women, we tend to look up to our own heroes as we go through the process of life transitions. And here I am again (long time no blog!) to share these women who helped me be the woman I prayed to be. Still a work in progress, as I will soon parent a teenager (Ha! Where did time actually go!), so that’s another story for another day.

Here I go!

1. Of course, my family. My mom who was widowed rather early in life, my Lola who mothered seven children and still taking care of her apos and great grandchildren, and my so many aunts, cousins, and lolas–mothers, singles, career people in their own right. Seeing them and being with them on a regular basis made me pick up the good things they did for the family, and throw away the bad they may have done in the past.

2. My friends and colleagues from the music world, and there are many. I admire those who have continued their careers even beyond marriage, and I surely picked up a thing or two from their stories. I admire as well those who chose to dedicate their lives to the families they have been blessed with, or those who met crossroads in their musical careers and chose to do other things, that’s also a challenge to choose between personal career and family.

3. My church community–fellow volunteers and mothers of my choir members. Can’t deny the fact that I spend more time doing church work nowadays and seeing fellow volunteers every Sunday and other days of the week when we’re needed. They’re the most selfless people I know, dedicating their time, talent, and treasure in the Shrine community and in other outreach activities. On top of this list is Nanay Pining(+), the mother of the Shrine’s first Rector, Msgr. Bobby, who was very supportive of Mons Bobby in his priestly ministry.

4. My few true female friends who always got my back. One message or call and they’re there for me and my family. I am truly grateful for you all!

5. My Mommy Choir, the Nawtingales, and the bigger community we belong to, the Nawies. It’s no accident that I was put by the Lord in this online group, which has been a great source of inspiration, support, and now music through the Nawtingales.

6. LATCH Philippines and Breastfeeding Pinays. Grateful for being a part of these communities strongly advocating breastfeeding and proper nutrition for children.

7. Our Lady of La Leche Movement. The devotion to Our Lady of La Leche made me a better and gentler mother. It was a unique devotion that I get to share to fellow Catholics and believers who wish to find a spiritual source of strength as they rear their children.

8. My ninangs. Principal Sponsors in our wedding. I get to message them once in a while and they are always there for us.

9. My Ariadne. I have the honour to parent a beautiful, funny, creative, smart, and faithful child of God. Can’t wait for what God has designed her to be as she continues to discover the world she’s growing up on.

There you have it! Hope I didn’t get to miss anyone. So grateful to be surrounded by strong, courageous, women who truly make this world a much brighter place.

Happy Women’s Day! Or Month. Or Year!

~ Touringkitty

10
Jun
2016

Ariadne the Ballerina

categories: Art and Culture, Family, Parenting

I am a frustrated ballerina. Up to this point, I still wonder what if I took formal ballet as a child. I will never forget my ballet presentation in school, where we had a show in Folk Arts Theater, no less.

My daughter, meanwhile, loved ballet, that it took us three years to ensure she likes it.

Aria finally finished her first ballet classes under Ballet Manila.

Since we only live in the next street, we decided to enrol in this school run by Prima Ballerina Lisa Macuja-Elizalde and Osias Barroso.

Three years ago when she first learned about ballet, through a cartoon called Angelina Ballerina, and eventually through a book about ballet which I bought online.

She had watched a lot of ballet performances, from three ballet companies in the area (I love Pasay City because it’s an arts hub, despite the crowded and traffic streets!). The very first full length we watched was in 2014 which is Ballet Philippines’ Cinderella. Then we watched Mga Kwento ni Lola Basyang, which was her fifth birthday outreach activity, sponsoring kids from Food for Hungry Minds to watch this ballet. Before Christmas last year, she watched Philippine Ballet Theater’s The Nutcracker with her dad, and Ballet Philippines’ Peter Pan.

Aria treated all these kids (plus some of their teachers and parents) to a night of ballet and Philippne literature. A memorable fifth birthday for her.

And so, this summer, we asked her again if she is really decided to take ballet. Since this will take up most of her time, we really had to ask her not once but a lot of times.

Good thing, Ballet Manila had an Open House activity in March where Aria got to try a full hour of lesson.

The lonesome student with the teacher. Teacher Maika was also her actual teacher in her class.

What we liked about Ballet Manila was, aside from its proximity, the waiting area for parents and guardians has CCTV so you could see your child while in class. I just hope they would be more strict in terms of security, especially when their gates are wide open and outside the parking area is the busy one way street already.

Finally, she started lessons in April. We didn’t have ballet clothes yet, but we got sponsors.

Aria got this leotard from one of my voice students.

My mom and sister (thank God for them!) bought almost all of her clothes–from leotards to tights to shoes.

First day high. And lookmat her purple shoes! Nope, the recommended attire is pink, but she eventually got pink ones soon after. Purple rocks!

Aria had ballet lessons three times a week, but since Mommy and Daddy had to work, too, it was mostly my mom–her Nonna–who takes her to class. Good thing we’re literally a skip and a hop away! One pedicab, actually, since it was scorching hot during her timeslot of 11 in the morning.

She eventually had rehearsals, which filled up her afternoons. She skipped a couple of sessions due to other pre-scheduled events (which were actually because of this blog). She even squeezed in two weeks of swimming lessons in a nearby hotel (that’a story for another day).

Thereafter, they had a photoshoot session for the souvenir program.

This was her class, Twinkle Toes level. 5-6 year olds.

She was so excited for the recital, that ever since learning her steps, she kept on practicing at home with her doll as partner (talk about artist discipline!). She also kept on reminding me and her dad about recital day, and made sure she invited the people dear to her to watch.

Recital day came, and we were in full force to support our little ballerina! They danced two musical numbers, and sharing with you one of them here. Click this link.

We are so proud of our little ballerina!

So, do we continue? Yes, we will, but probably delay it for a couple months since we are starting Grade 1 already and we will homeschool (yes, another post!).

It was one fulfilling summer for her. And for us parents, too.

Daddy wrote this dedication for the souvenir program.

Prima Ballerina and my little ballerina. #fangoals (for me, that is!).

How did you spend your summer?

~ Touringkitty

15
Feb
2016

Consummatum est: Weaned from the breast

categories: Breastfeeding, Family, Health, Parenting

I really cannot think of any good title for this post. I just had to post this anyway: Aria is FULLY WEANED from the breast. From MY breasts, which nourished her with my own milk from Day One.

No more breastfeeding, no more asking for “dede” to be able to sleep. Not even for comfort. Not even for…nothing. Hugs work. Blankets work. Dolls work. That’s enough for her.

I actually thought she’d wean after that two-week Europe trip I had in the middle of last year. Or even that overnight trip to Balesin last month. But she didn’t.

It has been close to two weeks of no nursing at all, no asking for “dede” to sleep. After our nightly prayers, she would just wrap herself in a blanket to sleep, then mightily proclaim that she will sleep by herself because she is a big girl.

She IS big. We have to pay for her train fare already. No more free buffet for her either. Kid's Rates already apply. — She IS big. We have to pay for her train fare already. No more free buffet for her either. Kid’s Rates already apply.

Let’s count this exactly: Five years, five and a half months. From someone who had doubts in the early days, who was almost persuaded to give formula (to which I never gave in), whose original goal was just six months, it was more than what I prayed for.

Breastfeeding is an investment. Aside from not buying formula and bottles anymore, we had lesser hospital trips, and reduced risk for certain types of cancers. Not only my daughter, but for me as well. Plus the countless other positive benefits for the whole family. Even for Daddy, who always had a good sound sleep in the night.

What happens next? Baby number two so I could breastfeed again? That’ll come, Sa Tamang Panahon.

That’s why I am ever so happy to see MORE breastfeeding families nowadays, and actively promoting it through the organisations that I am part of — LATCH and Our Lady of La Leche Movement.

It is true, a mom could be emotional when weaning time comes. For some, they choose to force wean, for some reasons. But I let this one come naturally, on her own. And all I feel is bittersweet.

I am praying and will continue to support all families who choose breastfeeding. Trust me, it’s the BEST and ONLY choice you’d want for your children.

~ Touringkitty

22
Aug
2015

Express Yourself: an afternoon of fun, games, and learning for moms and kids

categories: Family, Movies, Parenting, Press Releases

Last Saturday, August 15th, we were a few of the lucky ones to witness the preview of Disney Pixar’s much anticipated movie, “Inside Out.”

But before watching the film, moms and kids were treated to an afternoon of learning and bonding through the Express Yourself Parenting Workshop, organized by SM Cinema and its official food unit, Snack Time, and the country’s top parenting magazine and website, Smart Parenting.

My little cute girl. Such a charmer! Before the program started, the kids had a chance to colour Inside Out characters.

With Joy, I mean, the host for the event, Mary Viernes.

The program consisted of talks about food and colour.

With Good Housekeeping's Food Editor, Chef Roselle Miranda, who gave tips on how to make quick and easy bento lunches. — With Good Housekeeping’s Food Editor, Chef Roselle Miranda, who gave tips on how to make quick and easy bento lunches.

Since the characters of the movie, Inside Out were just colourful, the event also had Mark Dean Lim of Color Me Doodle talk about colours and their meaning.

The Activity Center of SM Aura was filled with various booths and activities to choose from. Food and drinks were also served.

Photobooth to capture the happy faces. Joy indeed.

Kids being happy and content playing with these Krispy Kreme balloons.

Moms got to try some pampering, too! I tried out hand paraffin and back massage from Bioessences, one of the sponsors of the event.

After which, at five in the afternoon, we went up a floor to the cinemas for the exclusive preview of Inside Out.

The movie is already showing since August 19, and I’d really recommend it for parents and kids alike. This is a good movie to teach emotions to children. And it will make us proud that a Filipino co-directed the movie. Indeed we are making waves in the arts!

So, come visit your nearest SM Cinema to watch Inside Out!

Once again, a huge thanks to Smart Parenting for the invitation, and SM Cinema and Snack Time for organizing this event! The pre-movie activities prepped us all for the movie, as we have created wonderful memories with our children. Another ball of Joy in their memory bank, or perhaps in their Core Memory! Ok, better watch before I spoil too much!

~ Touringkitty

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About SM Cinema

The pioneer brand of SM Lifestyle Entertainment Inc, SM Cinema begun in 1986 as SM’s household brand for movie watching. Now encompassing 60% of the country’s total market share for cinema and exhibition, SM Cinema boasts of 284 fully digitized theatres in 51 branches nationwide, and three big brands under its name. As the front-runner in theatre innovation, SM Cinema will be expanding to more regions, and building more cinema screens in a branch near you. SM Cinema is the country’s leader in movie entertainment.

About Snack Time

The sole food concession unit of SM Cinema, Snack Time is also available at the Mall of Asia Arena, Exploreum, SM Bowling Center, SM Skating Rink, and in WM Cinemas. Snack Time offers a wide variety of food: from snacks such as popcorn, burgers, sandwiches, corndogs, and drinks to meals fit to be served at formal events, Snack Time is one of the biggest food operators in the entertainment and lifestyle business. Snack Time is also the merchandise arm of SMLEI.

27
Nov
2014

Touringkitty feature: Timelapse video of pregnancy

categories: Career, Parenting, Pregnancy Chronicles, Uncategorized

How did you document your pregnancy?

I swear I cannot remember something really religious to document those nine months. Photos? Maybe once in a while, but not every month.

Then I remembered, I started this blog the month before I gave birth, and have collected notes in a notebook which led to putting them online. So, the Touringkitty blog was officially born July 2010.

Recently, I saw a really cool video of a pregnancy documentation which I thought was cute, sweet, and was produced with lots of hard work and love.

Yes, a timelapse video for a pregnancy documentation! Looks like hard work, eh?

I got permission from the creators of this video, professional musicians Emanuele and Rechelle Frisardi, to post about this on the blog, and here’s a short Q&A with them:

Touringkitty (TK): Thank you for allowing me to share this! May we know what are your respective professions and where are you based?

Rechelle and Emanuele (RE): We are both violinists. Emanuele is a violin teacher in some music schools here in Germany and I’m a freelance violinist and do private teaching as well. We’re based in Saarbrücken, Germany. (Rechelle is a Filipina and we’ve known her because of her cousin who is our choir mat, while Emanuele is Italian but has

TK: Who conceptualised the video? How did you schedule your shoots?

RE: The main idea was Emanuele’s. He’s fond of making timelapse videos so when I told him I wanted a timelapse of my pregnancy, he thought about doing in episodes of what happens during the 9 months. We listed different possible scenes that we could do for the whole video, then during the takes, we improvised some more since we got more ideas. We shot mostly on weekend nights when we’re free and when we’re not tired. It’s actually a lot of work since every time we had to arrange our living room exactly the same as possible from the last video we took, like the position of the pillows, the curtains, the flowers, etc. And then there’s the actual shooting which takes for about 2 hours, depending how difficult the scene is. Since there’s just the 2 of us working on the film, Emanuele (or me) had to run in every shot to move the objects.

TK: It looks like a lot of work for us, but What equipment and software did you use?

RE: The equipments were very simple (amateur level). Emanuele used a Canon DSLR EOS 550D plus a tripod. The softwares were Timelapse Assembler and iMovie for Mac.

Pretty cool, right? They’ve assembled about 2,000 photos for this five minute video.

Got more unique ideas? Share how you documented or plan to document your own pregnancy.

~ Touringkitty

30
Jul
2014

Raising a smart child in a fast-paced era

categories: Parenting, Uncategorized

Admit it, this is an era when everything changes in a split second. Or make that, with a click of the mouse (or a tap on a tablet, if that’s your case).

It is quite a challenge raising our children today. Because of social media, parents are becoming highly competitive. Each milestone is documented online quickly for all the world to see, and not anymore through keepsakes or journals or scrapbooks.

How do we keep up?

1. Heed advise from your parents. They’ve gone through that rough road of child rearing so they know better. They might always compare from the past generation, but it’s inevitable. Some advise might not be applicable in the modern era, but listen to them anyway.

2. Go back to basics. Lampin is fine. Freshly cooked food is perfectly fine. Breastfeeding is best. Classic, chic, and convenient, they all are.

3. Be a “present” parent. And this should be on top of everything else. Our young children need us, naturally. They are too young to understand how the world works, and it is our responsibility to raise not only smart but good human beings.

If we could be with her all day everyday, we would.

Of course, we want our children to learn a lot of things. It is said that children learn so many things early on as neurons quickly form everyday. Our child is turning four next month, and so far, here’s a rundown of some of her milestones:

Reading and Language: Reads English like a second grader and pretty much understands them as well, reads and recites Filipino poems and rhymes, speaks fluently both in English and Filipino (though sometimes she mixes them when she’s unfamiliar with translated words).

Writing: colors inside lines, doodles spirals and straight lines, can trace and write happy faces. Still working on it, I must admit, and she’s leaning to become a leftie (not my husband nor I are left-handed!).

Counting: counts and can read up to 100 with pauses, adds up to five, counts from ten to zero.

Music: sings in perfect rhythm and tune, knows how to sing arpeggiated triads, easily memorizes anything through singing and dancing.

Values: says “po” and “opo,” does “mano po,” which is a very good Filipino tradition that we must keep, shows thoughfulness, shares and helps around when she’s in a good mood.

How does our family do it?

1. By feeding our child well. We breastfed her since birth and there’s no sign of weaning at age four. We gave her only freshly prepared foods when she’s starting solids, and make sure she eats a balanced diet especially that she’s on the lean side.

2. By being her first teachers. My husband and I made sure we’ll be the ones who will teach our daughter her ABCs, so we read books to her, sang and danced with her, even if it meant coming home right after work and spending our evenings with her at the center of our attention. All of those worked well.

3. By always connecting with family outside of our home. Since we’re only three in our condo (we don’t have stay in help), we make sure she knows our family and friends, too. Aside from spending time with them, we make sure to call them constantly, do video call, post photos and videos so they will be updated with our child’s growth.

4. By introducing her to new things everyday. We use technology to our advantage, definitely. iPad apps and online resources are a great aid for learning, just make sure you set your limits when you use them. Anything excessive is bad.

5. By being parents by example. This is the hardest by the simplest thing to raise a smart and good child. What we want them to do, we must first be able to do ourselves. I am constantly reminded by my child to be a model parent just by looking at her. And yes, I struggle to be one everyday.

Bottomline is, we build first our connection with ourselves, then with our partners in raising our children (our spouses and other family members) in order to connect better with our child. Then, we can truly raise our child slowly but surely in the midst of an ever-changing society. As their parents, we must strengthen our faith in ourselves so that we can be the best parents to our children.

16
May
2014

Preschool Hunt: In search of my daughter’s preschool

categories: Education, Parenting

I spent the whole of March searching for my daughter’s preschool. Though I thought it was still too early, I already started because time indeed flies so fast. My daughter’s turning four in August, and I want to keep options as open and as varied as possible.

Currently, we’re taking it slow on homeschooling, as you could follow my Instagram posts (Follow me!). We’re following an online program for math and reading and basically filling her day with coloring, tracing, and more reading. She loves to sing and dance and make music.

I checked on the following schools and systems and here’s what I have gathered:

1. Gymboree Preschool at Sofitel. Aria has been attending Gymboree classes since she turned one, though not regularly. We make sure we get coupons online or wait for discounts in their branch. We attended their open house and that was the first time Aria was left alone with a class and a teacher whom she was not familiar with. Tears well up both our eyes as we parted ways–I was just at the next room where the orientation took place. The teacher brought her to me and showed a well written worksheet of the letter A (note that she does not write yet). I was proud. But I knew it was not for us. It was just waaaaaay expensive. We enrolled her in their classes because I got another discount from them.

2. Catholic Filipino Academy. I attended their orientation and was inspired by the other parents there. I think I was the only one who attended alone, and the only one who had a preschooler. All of the others attended with their spouses, some even brought their children in tow, some are in highschool already. They have a preschool program which I can enrol Aria in and a reading program wherein you just follow a set of worksheets and activities without enrolling the child to a regular homeschool program.

3. Preschool homeschool workshop by The Learning Basket. This I have been doing for a couple of years already, and my daughter reaped its benefits. Especially that I stay at home most of the time, I get to supervise what should be taught, what interests her in a specific day, and what materials at home I can use. We do not have a specific program, but as much as I can, I try to put a little structure to her day, so eventually she will get the hang of a regular school, whether homeschool or brick and mortar school. It was fun meeting moms, dads, and kids that day, and ideas really can be endless.

4. Brick and mortar school. I was able to visit one in Taguig, a Catholic International school. And is the first of its kind in the country. I liked how the school is so small that everyone knows each other. It feels safe and secure. But then, they do not have preschool yet. They offer K-9 levels this year. I must check out other preschools then.

So, have we enrolled Aria? Technically, no. But she studies, at home, with me as her teacher. We will carry on with homeschooling her. As long as she is well fed, well loved, and growing up with the proper values, we are fine. She will go to school in the proper time. Try asking Aria if she goes to school. You’d be happy to know what her answer will be.

~ Touringkitty

Category: Parenting

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